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How Will You Know You Completed the Goal?

Sometimes "I don't know where to start" isn't about the goal being too big.

Sometimes "I don't know where to start" isn't about the goal being too big.

It's that the goal is still just a simple phrase.

I want to be healthier. Grow the business. Get organized. Be more consistent.

Those are real things to want. But "I want to be healthier" could mean a hundred different things, so it's hard to pick a first move, and it's easy to pick none.

Healthier could mean sleeping better. It could mean walking every morning, cooking at home more, or drinking more water. All of those are good. They just aren't the same first step.

A simple phrase is a good place for a goal to begin. It just isn't a good place for it to stay.

This is where the second piece comes in.

When I work with someone, we build out the picture first. What does it actually look like when you get there? Then we break it down until it's specific enough to point to.

It's really hard to build a bridge to a finish line you can't see.

That picture is your finish line. It answers a question most of us skip right past:

How will you know you completed the goal?

If you can't answer that, you could work on "healthier" for years and never feel like you got there. Once you can see it, you know which direction you're building in.

So here's my suggestion to you. Take the simple phrase you've been carrying around and ask yourself this:

What changes in your life when you reach the goal? What does your day look like? How do you feel? Stronger? Calmer? Happier? What actions would you have taken to get here?

Write your answers down. They don't have to be perfect, and you don't need the whole plan.

You just need one starting point.

Then read it back. Somewhere in that picture is a piece small enough to start on.

If you want a second set of eyes on what keeps getting in the way, that's what the free clarity call is for.

Frequently asked questions

Why don't I know where to start on my goal?

Sometimes it isn't about the goal being too big. It's that the goal is still just a simple phrase. "I want to be healthier" could mean a hundred different things, so it's hard to pick a first move, and it's easy to pick none.

How will I know I completed my goal?

Build out the picture first. What does it actually look like when you get there? That picture is your finish line. Without it, you could work on a goal for years and never feel like you got there.

What questions help me picture my goal?

What changes in your life when you reach the goal? What does your day look like? How do you feel? What actions would you have taken to get here? Write your answers down. They don't have to be perfect.

Do I need the whole plan before I start?

No. You just need one starting point. Read your answers back, and somewhere in that picture is a piece small enough to start on.

Where can I get help turning my goal into something I can see?

That's what the free clarity call is for.

Your next chapter doesn’t need a perfect first day.

Bring the goal you keep thinking about. We’ll make the first step clear, small, and possible.

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